Question:

       Many parents are worried that their children do not make friends and have no playmates, especially those parents whose children are relatively introverted, but they do not know how to improve this situation.

Answer:

       There is no good or bad between introversion and extroversion, but in special circumstances, the introverted personality will make some difference on their life, study and communication, and most of them show negative influence. Children are introversion because they have little self-confidence, they are afraid of their behaviour will be laughed by others. On the other way, there is often a great relationship with their parents' education if a child is introversion. It will cause child's psychological tension if parents' attitude and behavior are not correct. Too simple or too hasty to solve problem also may cause bad influence to child.

Jollybaby teach you some methods to solve problem correctly now~

1. Be patient with childrem, reduce the standard of requirements.

       If  you ask your child to be polite, and he didn't do it, you can not force him to do or scold him. For the child's shy behaviour, such as not slide slides, jump trampoline, voice is too small, parents should try to restrain their feelings, don't do too strong reaction to children. What parents should do is encourage children, at the same time, you can praise children's small progress timely.

2. Give the child a positive psychological hint, do not use some negative words such as "Did your classmates bully you" "Did your teacher criticize you today" and so on, to avoid  the child always in a weak or a passive position in the psychology.

       Parents should listed child's "brave" behaviour usually, such as he doesn't cry or cry for only a moment when he take an injection, jumps from the high stairs, admits  errors and so on.

3.Create conditions and encourage children participate in some activities to enable him to broaden their horizons, enhance self-confidence.

       Parents do not force children to do something they don't like, and let them choose their own  interests, respect for children's interests and choice will respect for children's interests, which is benefit for cultivating children's self-confidence.

4. Teach your child to share

       Sharing is a useful way to increase the emotions between people. Most children are the single-child in the family today, their character will become lonely easily because they have no brothers and sisters accompanied.

      In short, the child needs care, let us give more concern to children, help them to grow up healthy and happily.

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